* Add utility to monitor memory usage of subcommands

Update to v3 of the node plugin

We've seen an increasing failures due to frontend build exceeding Node
default 1.5GB memory limit during build. Heroku runs these builds on
machines with 2.5GB of memory. This increases the default limit for
Node 8 and above by passing commands via `NODE_OPTIONS` during build
if the user has not set this manually

* Rework output when caching directories

This splits the logic when the buildpack saves and restores the cache
into two separate branches:

- when the user hasn't specified specific directories to cache (most everyone)
- when the user has given a list of specific directories to cache (power users)

This gives us more control over the default messaging, which has
included messaging for bower_components forever, even though most users
will never use bower, nor should we encourage them to.

These changes silence and minimize the messaging for the default case

These changes move the hatchet ci specs from specs/ to specs/ci/ and creates a separate directory with some new specs that mimic the ones for CI, but are designed so that you can specify the Node version via ENV var so that they can be called from nodebin to test new Node releases before making them public

Adds hatchet tests as part of our testing matrix and adds that to Travis CI

The resolves an issue where a user that is not using a version of Node supported by the metrics plugin (not 8, 9, or 10) opts in to the feature.

Since the plugin for the appropriate version of Node is copied into the slug at build time, but the metrics url is set at runtime, we need to verify that the plugin exists before including it.

* Add metrics plugin + unit tests

This merges in the build changes and plugin from https://github.com/heroku/heroku-nodejs-metrics-buildpack which installs the metrics plugin https://github.com/heroku/heroku-nodejs-plugin at runtime once a Heroku use opts in to the language metrics feature

* Fix travis builds

- Yarn reworked the structure of their cache directory with a recent release, which broke one of the tests.

- added new fixtures for Node versions: 6, 8, 9, and 10

- Added new utilities for asserting that a file exists or does not exist after a build

Add buildpack.toml and publish script

Add heroku-18 to tests

Add more error detection for errors involving stack traces

Add detection for module 404s

Skip pruning for versions of npm with known issues

The following versions of npm will strip out dependencies installed via git when you run npm prune --production: 5.6.0, 5.5.1, 5.5.0, 5.4.2, 5.4.1, 5.4.0, 5.3.0 (didn't work for other reasons), 5.2.0, 5.1.0

This commit skips the prune step and logs a warning for these versions.

Fixes #431 

Many users getting started with Heroku try to run a build step with webpack, gulp, etc only to find that it's in their devDependencies and not installed by default on Heroku. They then have to figure out how to tell Heroku to install these. Defaulting to installing everything makes for a smoother onboarding.

Changes the default behavior to install `devDependencies`, run the build step, and then prune the `devDependencies` once the build step is complete.

Yarn versions lower than 0.19 will crash if passed --frozen-lockfile, but usage of these versions has dropped to near-zero.

Fixes #414 #504

Export cache config vars

Fix typo for grep.

Add metrics for more types of failures

Update changelog